I just realized that in a year and about three weeks, we're getting married. Yes, our target date and hopefully official date is 08.09.10.
This is it. Time is ticking!! We have to be set for the marriage, and for that, we are setting out a plan. (Perennial planner in the hizo!)
As to any plan, there should be guidelines, here are some of ours:
#1: Don't forget to have fun while planning. It's meant to bring us closer together and build a deeper bond.
#2: Eyes on the prize. No matter what, we get our plans in action. Even if it's not to a tee, as long as we get to the end result, that's fine.
#3: It should be a unanimous decision. If we don't reach a decision, we park it for now. Then come back to it later.
#4: We don't discuss our future together if one is nagtatampo or mainit ang ulo (or gutom).
#5: We tackle all roadblocks together, one step at a time.
#6: We have to have an open communication. - all doubts, fears, ideals, vision, etc..
#7: Pray. pray. pray.
#8: bleeped. PG 13 content.
#9: Let the other person know if you'll sleep while you're discussing something important. (Especially if you have a 16 hour time difference).
#10: We're spending the rest of our lives together, what can be better than that?!!!
This is it. Timer starts now.
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